4 Tips on What to Talk About During a First Date with a New Woman

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By Mdavies

Some tips on what to talk about on your dater with.......her

So after dredging up all your courage, you’ve finally asked her out and are on your way to your first date. The only problem is you hadn't planned this far out yet! Just asking her out was terrifying enough.  If you want it to work out though you're going to have to learn how to talk to women, but let's just start with our first baby step with our first date conversation.  This article is focused on helping you get the hang out conversations during the first date.

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• One thing you must remember during a first date conversation is to avoid the hazardous topics. In a first date conversation you will want to avoid any conversations that will press a bit too close to home.  This includes conversations about religion, politics, their personal past, or anything else that just seems like you don't really need to know on a first date.  There's nothing worse than asking what their parents do for a living and getting the “they died three months ago” answer. Try sticking to the usual date topics for the first few times that the two of you get out.

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• What you do want to ask about is only positive things.  You can ask her questions about her siblings as usually brothers and sisters only bring out good memories and if something bad did happen to them they usually won't blame you for asking.  Her hobbies or perhaps her profession are also very good conversation topics.Stay in the present and future when speaking to her, when you start prying into her past,  you usually come across some ugly things as everyone has some skeletons in their closet.

• Lastly, make sure that you are listening when she talks. Let her do most of the talking, but always ask follow up questions like “so why did he do that” or whatever shows that you truly are listening to what she has to say.  Good listeners are getting fewer by the second and that’s why woman are very much attracted to them.
Don't start drooling when she starts talking about subjects you have no clue what they're about, just smile and keep asking questions pertaining to the subject.  If what she says is really dull, then she’ll probably figure it out and move on to topics that are more interesting.

Concentrate more on building your confidence rather than thinking about the “what ifs” on your first date. Just stay out of the for-sure zones of speech.  Women like confident men who aren't afraid to speak their mind and you could even be a little bit edgy with your conversations.  If she's really uptight and disagrees with everything you have to say then it's probably best that you don't date her in the first place and thank god that it happened on the first date rather than three months into the relationship.  Just keep a stiff upper lip and be friendly in case it goes bad and you'll have no problems with future conversations on your first date.

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